Generation Lost

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So my dad's dad passed away last Thursday.  At his funeral on Tuesday it hit me that I no longer have any living grandparents.  With that realization I now regret not having spent more of my time talking with them about their lives.  What were they like as kids?  What was their family life like?  What were their best moments in life?  What do they wish they would have done differently?  An entire generation of my family is now gone and I am grieving the fact that I did not take full advantage of the wisdom and experience that is now gone with them.  I need to make a more concerted effort to not make the same mistake with my parent's generation, and also do as much as possible to make sure my kids and future grandkids do not have the same regrets someday.

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